Hello All!
Recently, I've had conversations with many of my friends... all of you truly fabulous women who happen to be single. We are beautiful, funny, passionate, self-sufficient, and intelligent! And why are we alone? I really don't have that answer.
Tonight, I asked an actual guy why fantastic women like us are single.
This was his answer:
"please. you all have to realize women are vastly superior to guys so you either have to settle for a guy that can be a little crummy or be single and lonely."
Is that what we have to look forward to? A guy that's "crummy"?
Meantime, this was a woman's answer:
"It's cause men have unrealistic expectations, they think they can have and deserve super models and so the rest of look ordinary. They all want the same 2 women out of 1,000. Dude, it's so depressing. This is why I pray. I figure my only hope is God."
Then this (fantastic) woman and I realized that maybe it's not them... it's us. Perhaps this so-called "sexual revolution" has really trapped us into a life of meaningless encounters with sub-standard partners. In order to make a change, there needs to be another sexual revolution of a different kind. I believe that women need to stop having casual sex. If we stop giving men the "free buffet" their only option will be to buy dinner. That same woman also pointed out that "feminism" in the 60's... really liberated men. Now they don't need to commit to one woman, or have to wait until marriage. By opening up this door, we've closed another one.
And that is my opinion on why all these great girls out there don't have anyone to even take them to the movies.
Tonight, I asked an actual guy why fantastic women like us are single.
This was his answer:
"please. you all have to realize women are vastly superior to guys so you either have to settle for a guy that can be a little crummy or be single and lonely."
Is that what we have to look forward to? A guy that's "crummy"?
Meantime, this was a woman's answer:
"It's cause men have unrealistic expectations, they think they can have and deserve super models and so the rest of look ordinary. They all want the same 2 women out of 1,000. Dude, it's so depressing. This is why I pray. I figure my only hope is God."
Then this (fantastic) woman and I realized that maybe it's not them... it's us. Perhaps this so-called "sexual revolution" has really trapped us into a life of meaningless encounters with sub-standard partners. In order to make a change, there needs to be another sexual revolution of a different kind. I believe that women need to stop having casual sex. If we stop giving men the "free buffet" their only option will be to buy dinner. That same woman also pointed out that "feminism" in the 60's... really liberated men. Now they don't need to commit to one woman, or have to wait until marriage. By opening up this door, we've closed another one.
And that is my opinion on why all these great girls out there don't have anyone to even take them to the movies.
2 Comments:
At 7:47 AM, October 25, 2005, Abbie G said…
Awesome. I will most definitely be participating in the future. Yay abstinence! *laughs* This is going to be fun.
At 10:24 AM, October 25, 2005, Anonymous said…
Depends on the dinner.
Men also have the option of joining a monastery.
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