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Thursday, February 14, 2008

just because it happened...

Irony of Accident

This morning I shut off the clock’s buzzer
(it doesn’t buzz, it beeps – what’s in a name)
and took another half an hour to dream
strange things before I rose – just another
day. I sipped French-pressed coffee at intervals
while eating breakfast, showering, throwing
on what there was that I could wear, loving
the favorite sweater’s shield from winter cold.
I drove a crazy pot-holed path to work
and cursed the sticky office lock, at last
got in. The answering machine was blank
and I pulled off my boots, glad for the break,
then glanced down at the date and had to laugh –
Valentine’s Day, and I was dressed in black.

9 Comments:

  • At 3:55 PM, February 14, 2008, Blogger Jennifer said…

    One time my college roommate was in a rather glum mood (for her that was extremely rare) so she painted her nails black, put on black clothing, and dark makeup. It was actually very cute. AND a guy ended up coming over for intervis (a friend of mine) and I think he was attracted to her. You never know what's going to happen!

     
  • At 12:56 AM, February 15, 2008, Blogger Ellen said…

    Well, at least the black was accidental. :) As a nurse, I get a little annoyed with the cutsy scrubs that a lot of hospital personnel will pull out for various holidays. (I do not wear patterned scrubs. I wear solid scrubs.) When I got to work today wearing blue scrubs a cluster of day shift nurses said, "Where are your Valetine's Day scrubs?? You could've at least worn your red pair!" I gave them a withering look and said, "Some of us don't celebrate Valetine's Day."

     
  • At 5:31 AM, February 15, 2008, Blogger la persona said…

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  • At 5:32 AM, February 15, 2008, Blogger la persona said…

    haha, one time I was in a rather glum mood and tried the whole goth look. i was devastated when my co-workers instead asked me if I was Amish.

    on you, though, I imagine black says "sexy" (so to speak) more than solitary.

     
  • At 8:57 AM, February 18, 2008, Blogger David Feingold said…

    Jennifer I like your blog. However, how is it possible for you to write about sipping coffee and eating breakfast without telling us what you ate for said meal? Your readers, (well ok, your fat jewish readers) want to know. We demand it!

     
  • At 9:02 AM, February 18, 2008, Blogger Jennifer said…

    Fat Jewish Guy, actually this blog has quite a few writers, and this one was written by Sarah. My blog is www.becomingthemarshmallow.com

    But I will say that Sarah is a far superior literary genius!

     
  • At 12:59 PM, February 18, 2008, Blogger The Prufroquette said…

    Aw, thanks, Jen. Very kind of you. :)

    Breakfast that morning was a piece of homemade cornbread crumbled in a bowl with milk poured over -- which somehow didn't fit into that loose sonnet's form.

     
  • At 5:55 PM, February 18, 2008, Blogger Dawn said…

    I wore black on Valentine's Day too--but it was a little black dress. ;-)

    There have been few times in my life when I've actually had a boyfriend during that day. It's a nice change.

     
  • At 7:18 AM, February 19, 2008, Blogger The Prufroquette said…

    My general objection to Valentine's Day is not how it throws into sharp relief my own aloneness; I had a brief moment of unhappiness on February 14th, and I stopped and analyzed it and realized that I wasn't wanting candlelight dinners or a hand to hold or companionship or cuddling -- they'll be nice when they come, but I'm not worried about it at the moment, I rather like my life -- no, I was feeling left out. It's the kind of holiday where there is simply no way, in our society, to make Valentine's Day about anything but romance, and so it's necessarily exclusionary, and the left-out feeling is unpleasant.

    That being said, of course, if or when the day comes when I do have someone with whom to celebrate that day, I probably will, just to get a taste of what everyone else has been doing while I had to watch. :) I mean, really, if that kid with his face pressed against the candy store window is finally allowed inside with some change, do you think he WON'T spend it all on the candy all the other kids were eating while he stood outside?

     

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