The Youth Pastor Syndrome

So recently, I've made an observation that somewhat piggybacks on the Science Girl's question as to 'where the Christian men are?' It's this trend I see on church Web sites everywhere. Anytime there is a Meet The Staff page, it sticks out to me like a sore thumb. Approximately 99% (okay, maybe a slight exaggeration) of the males in their 20s working at churches are already married, and probably did so before graduating college. Why is this? It's not very encouraging that the only attractive men my age I encounter on Sundays are with their wife and six 'beautiful' children. Basically, I feel like I don't even have the option at dating a Christian guy simply because I missed the boat. On the upside, with the recent allegations on mega-church pastor Ted Haggard, maybe I'm one of the lucky ones.
Is there a certain movie-star-like allure for Christian women to pursue men of the cloth? To live that seemingly perfect life of a pastor's wife. Because I attended a private Protestant college, there were many classmates with ambitions of becoming a theologian or a youth pastor.
Not that I have anything against youth pastors. It’s just... many of them seem totally generic. In college, they were the guys roaming around campus accidentally-on-purpose not wearing a shirt, playing one of a dozen worship songs they could strum on a guitar, attracting droves of husband-crazy desperate girls. Just because you sing songs about Jesus with your eyes closed doesn’t make you some kind of super hero. Personally, I’ve never been roped in by anyone like that. There seems something shell-like about them. Are they the new Stepford Wives? The ladies’ man?
In my personal experience interacting with youth pastors, I don’t know if it’s just me, but more than a few have been insincere... even rude to me. I’ve known of several who have ‘resigned’ from their churches due to moral issues. To me, that’s sad. Although, I will give them this credit. The youth pastor (as well as the entire church staff) at the church I currently attend is awesome. It gives me a glimmer of hope. But the rest? I just don’t know. And no, I would never marry a youth pastor.